When the two of you decided to romp around on your kitchen floor, you ran the risk of losing your families! You guys have nothing to gain, everything to lose and for what? Something that can never be! Come out the clouds, sis! The feelings you have for your husband’s brother you have to ignore because nothing good can come from this. You have violated unspoken boundaries that most people wouldn’t dare cross and, as a result, you are now living in fear. It also sounds as though you two have found the passion the both of you are lacking in your marriages. an extramarital affair is hurtful enough but your husband’s brother? Based off what you’ve written it sounds like you succumbed to your loneliness and a little bit of attention from a man opposite your husband – athletic, a little thug appeal because he’s “street smart” and “works with his hands,” and he also happens to be your brother-in-law. but you sure opened it, huh? You’re sleeping with your brother-in-law! He’s your children’s uncle! When you took those vows with your husband, he became your family! He’s supposed to be that secondary support for his brother (your husband) in terms of the time he spends with is nephews, that’s what families do! Seriously, ma. Oh dear, this is so scandalous on so many levels! Curse that Pandora’s box. Good day to you, sis! Thank you for writing in and sharing your story. I don’t know what to do because I don’t want to leave him but I’ve developed feelings for his brother. Every time my husband calls my heart races thinking that he knows and he’s caught wind of it. I’m constantly paranoid that they might argue and his brother will go off and tell him that we’ve been sleeping together. I can’t resist him and we’ve slept together 4 times since then. I opened the garage door so he could get what he needed and leave and he came in the house to let me know he was leaving and I said okay thanks but he closed the door behind him and starting kissing me and once again we had sex. Within a few weeks my husband had made arrangements for him to make use of some of our lawn equipment that we don’t use and he came to pick it up. For about a month I avoided all his brother’s phone calls and didn’t want anything to do with him. I felt horrible about it and thought it was a one time ordeal and was scared to face my husband when he came home. I had a few glasses of wine and he had a few beers and the next thing I know we’re on the kitchen floor having the best sex I’ve had in years. We had a good time and we came back to my house and I cooked dinner for all of us, the kids ate and fell asleep. The next week when my husband left town his brother called and asked if it was okay to come and get my sons to take them putt-putting and asked if I wanted to come along and I did.
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His jealousy went through the roof when I backed his brother and told him that I appreciated that he makes the time to do these kind of things with our sons. Back in April we had a bar-b-que at our house and his brother was there talking about how much my son has come along with dribbling a basketball and my husband got jealous and made a scene saying that he had kids of his own to raise and that he needed no help raising ours. For the longest time his brother and I didn’t get along and we constantly bickered back and forth but the more my husband traveled the closer we became. My husband is very studious, straightlaced and matter of fact but his brother is sort of street smart, self taught works with his hands kind of man. My husband being a corporate man and his brother owns a landscaping business. Him and my husband are like night and day. He was basically doing all the manly things my husband doesn’t do. While he was on the road, my husband’s brother who is also married with older kids would come by and pick up my oldest son and take him to get a haircut or bowling or to the basketball court. After having my youngest son, I felt alone and was always at home with the kids by myself. I didn’t like the idea that he would be gone in Vegas and other big cities for two and three weeks at time and when he came home he would be too tired to give me any attention or even help with the kids. Me and my husband have been having problems for the last 2 years because he’s been going out of town for work a lot and I don’t trust that he’s all business and no play while he’s away.
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We have 2 boys, 5 and 2, and I would give my life for my family.
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I’ve been with husband for 10 years and we’ve been married for 7 years in September. I can’t talk to my friends or family about this but I’m between a rock and a hard place. Bossip I need to get something off my chest.